There are many fun date ideas that you can do… check out the my recent post on the front page to get fun date ideas.
First Date Ideas & Tips
So you want to take a woman out on a date?
Take her to some place that’s out of the ordinary… here are a few tips that has worked great for me:
- Go bowling - Play biljard - Take her to the zoo - Take a walk in a forest - Climb a hill - Have a picnic in a park - Go out on a boat - Swim in a lake...
Any place that’s out of the ordinary is good… if you want to learn more how to make a perfect date… check out this guide… You will learn:
- The exact words to use when on the date.
- The 2 most important aspects of female psychology.
- How to take the lead on dates.
- Easy humor tips.
- How to deal with shy women.
- How to gather logistical information in advance.
- How to make a woman totally comfortable with the date.
- How to avoid those "awkward moments."
If you are interested… now I will tell you how you can get a lot of dates in the first place…
I didn’t know how to approach girls before… nor did I now how to talk or how to attract them.
This was a big problem for me… the only dates I got was girls that wanted me… but I wasn’t interested in them…
So I decided to learn how to overcome my shyness and to be good with women.
I started getting to know guys that already had success… I followed them around and watched what they did to get women but I couldn’t understand what they did… I made friend with a guy called Jim…
He’s not good looking but he’s a master at attracting girls… He told me his secrets behind how he got good at it… and it wasn’t what I thought it was… he told me that he could read women’s mind using a trick…
I started laughing… I thought he was joking…
He then looked me deep into my eyes and explained exactly how it worked.
He told me that there are 8 different types of women… and when you know a women’s type… you will know how to attract her… to figure out a girls type he just used 3 simple questions… when he knew her type he just showed her the qualities she’s most attracted to.
He told me it worked 9 times out of 10.
I was amazed by his story… He wrote the web address to the site where I could find a video about this trick… So I went home to learn the technique.
Now a few month later I really understand what Jim meant… my success with women are now extraordinary… I date the girls I always wanted to date in the past.
You can also check out this trick… the video is still up… I’m not sure how long time it will be up for though… it’s suppose to be a limited amount guys that will be able to learn this trick…
Click the link below to see the video while you still can:
Click here to learn the technique!
Meeting someone for the first time…..your first date! Most of you will try quite hard to make that lasting impression on the first date, yet in spite of your best efforts the experience may not work out as expected. It is not always easy to brainstorm great first date ideas. However there are numerous ways to impress and entertain your date. Let your creative juices flow and decide on something that both of you will enjoy and remember for years together.
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Plan the Perfect Date!
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Here are some enjoyable and exciting ideas to bowl over your date:
Getting to Know Each Other
Though most of us have the ability to carry out easygoing, smooth conversations with friends and family we may become embarrassingly tongue-tied on a first date.
First date questions are often a cause of worry even for smooth talkers…Does that mean you wouldn’t know what to ask your first date?
No more choking up! No more lumps in your throat! You and your date are going to talk and laugh like you’ve known each other for ages once you become aware of the questions that you should be asking your date. Another good idea is to ask an pick up artist at puaforums.com about advanced dating tips.
- You can start off by asking a very useful yet thought-provoking question, “What are you looking for in a relationship?” A genuine answer to this question will help in making expectations clear upfront, reduce nervousness and allow you to focus on your date. For example- If the other person wants to start a family while you are looking for some fun, then its time to move onto that second date!
- You can carry on by asking personal questions that will allow you to gauge the personality and lifestyle of the person. However be careful not to get too personal and cause discomfort to your partner. Questions like the following are catalytic in continuing the conversation yet make the process easy and fun for both:
- Tell me about your family?
- What is your take on relationships?
- What do you enjoy doing for fun?
- Do you enjoy watching movies? What types?
- How do you feel about (you can take up any issue here)…?
- When was your last relationship?
- What are some of your goals in life?
- What are some of your pet peeves?
- What do you do for work and do you like it?
Bear in mind that it’s always better to ask questions on and off or during a discussion of a similar topic. You surely don’t want to start firing off questions and make it sound like an interview! You must also be sensitive about how your date is handling the questions, if you sense any discomfort, do not push the issue. Remember first date questions are meant to have fun and know more about the person not to scare them away!
First Date Tips at Your Fingertips
First dates are only as painful as we all make it out to be. However when it goes perfectly, first dates are a great way to gauge compatibility and chemistry. A few simple first date tips can eliminate any unnecessary pain.
A Place to Meet
Although it is tempting to go all out on the first date, low-key plans are better. When thinking about the perfect location for your first date, consider the following tips:
- The less crowded, the better. Both of you should be able to focus on each other rather than get distracted by the crowd. However avoid deserted areas which may attract negative attention.
- Pick a nice, simple place where you can relax and enjoy as well. A good restaurant, comedy clubs, sporting events, video arcades, bowling, miniature golf, and concerts are also good bets to break the ice and remove tension on the first date.
Dressing Up to Impress
A seemingly obvious tip is to be neatly groomed for the special occasion.
- Dress appropriately for the date and dress up for the location. If you are going to sit at a restaurant a formal dress will look great, but if you are going to move around and enjoy then casuals should be a great idea. Just remember- neither over do things nor look shabby.
- A very common mistake that ladies make on their first date is to dress seductively. Extremely provocative clothing may give the impression that you are only looking for a physical encounter. Remember, first impressions last long!
Be Your Best Self
- It is important to be your best self. At this stage, you are just getting to know each other and as of now a certain amount of self restrain is necessary.
- Be upbeat and positive in your attitude. Your conversation and discussions should be pleasant and easy. Being yourself makes you naturally more attractive.
Follow Your Heart and Your Hormones
- Times have changed; kissing on the first date is no more a taboo. However it depends entirely on both of you, if you felt a real spark, and loved each others company… then just go ahead.
As you part with your date, you will have probably made up your mind about the compatibility. Be honestly upfront about your feelings. If you did have a great time, say so. On the contrary if you know there will be no second date, say that too.
It’s best to play it safe when it comes to the first date, give yourself time to explore various first date ideas before taking the plunge.
OVERVIEW
When done correctly, first dates are a great way to gauge chemistry, compatibility, and communication. Dating isn’t as painful as we all make it out to be. Just be honest, be yourself, have fun, and soon you’ll be the one giving out the first date ideas!